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Have you ever feels that everywhere you go, you are being watched and spy by people around you? Its like all eyes are on you, because you think that people judge you nonstop. Left, right, up and down, you feel so insecure about yourself, about what you do and what you don't do. You thoughts, "why am I doing this? Why am I not doing that?" Most of us will experience this. Even the closest one to you, you will think that he or she is judging you and talking in their own thoughts about you. 

  Sometimes I feel worried. Why? Because I am insecure to everyone around me. Not beauty insecure, why would I? I feel confident enough about my appearance but not people's thoughts. And then one day, someone told me to stop care about what people say about me, myself. I am me, i know who am I, I know what am I doing, I know my limits. So thats it people, stop care about what people say about us, just keep moving on our life and do whats best for our-self, especially the girls out there, who suffered of being judge, I know how stressful it was but try to not to care. Just walk confidently and just be yourself. 

Good Friends True Friends

How do you make a real friends? Firstly, be authentic. If you're not comfortable being yourself around people then your friends might have a hard time feeling comfortable around you. And you have to accept yourself. You'll have to like and accept yourself in order for your friends to like you too. More than that, learn how to listen and share things equally with your friends. Trust is all that important, not just in a relationship, but in friendship its important too. Always give yourself space hunny.Our news is constantly filled with the reality of death and dying. And each of us, if we live long enough, experiences the loss of persons we loved. That is the time when we needed them.   Whats more important is, what is true friend? A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself, and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to letting a person be what he really is.   Friends are people we love to spend time with. They give us company when we are lonely, support us unconditionally and accept us despite our shortcomings. They make celebrations fun, and they help us be ourselves. Not just that, friends also help us grow at a spiritual level. Each soul is on a journey. Friends are guides who come into our lives, play their roles and move on. Don’t we all have friends who we were very close to at one point, but with whom we are no longer in touch with now? They drifted away from our life when their role as guide was over. What friends do for us cannot be described in words. It is important for us to have friends but many of us find it difficult to strike up a friendship.   In any relationship, and especially in friendship, it is important to communicate clearly what you are feeling. Honest communication leads to the right expectations. Always speak frankly about the way you feel. This ensures that your friend understands you for who you are and not the image that she might have created in her mind. It also ensures that there is complete acceptance and trust in the relationship. The more acceptance there is, the easier it is to trust. Eventually trust is the basis for any strong relationship. But to develop trust you need to communicate clearly and be non-judgemental. Make sure you do your best to nurture the friendship.